Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Kefir

Less than a year ago I didn't even know that kefir existed.

Well, Ok, I guess that's a bit of an exaggeration.  I had heard the word kefir, I had seen it in grocery stores near the milk. I think I had a vague idea (I think from reading about it in Weston Price stuff during my pregnancy) that is tasted like yogurt.  I honestly thought it was just one of those fad foods that may have originally been a healthy thing, but I was quite sure if I stopped to read the ingredients on these bottles of kefir I would find they were loaded with unhealthy stuff.  That was about the only notion I had of kefir just less than a year ago.  (And I have stopped to read the labels on the cow kefir since then & have learned that most of it is loaded with sugar & other things that I don't consider healthy, so I was, in a sense, correct)

And now kefir is a huge deal in my life. 

Back when Lil J was 10 months old or so I decided to start transitioning him over to whole cow milk from his formula.  I know that everyone does this differently, but I (completely on my own, I didn't read this anywhere--though after doing this I saw other people online saying they did this & I also saw other mother's saying it was the stupidest thing they had ever heard of) decided to make it gradual.  So at first I did 6 oz of formula mixed with 2 oz of cow milk.  I remember thinking he had a cold, his little nose was all stuffed up & he kept sneezing & had TONS of mucous all day long.  I had thought the cold would pass.  After 2 weeks (& the cold had not lessened at all) I moved him to 4 oz of formula & 4 oz of cow milk.  It was then that the mucous situation worsened TREMENDOUSLY & I realized it wasn't a cold at all, it was a reaction to the cow milk. 

I went to a health food store to buy goat milk, to give it a try.  I was looking for the powdered form, since it was like the formula, I thought that would be easiest.  I couldn't find it, so I asked someone who worked there.  She said they had it & went to look for it, but couldn't find it.  She showed me the evaporated form in a can & the fresh version in the dairy case.  She went to ask why she couldn't find the powder & came back to tell me they didn't carry it anymore. 

While I was waiting for her to come back a guy who worked there (who had overheard us talking) told me they also had goat yogurt in the dairy case, just in case I was interested.  I told him thank you.  Once she came back & I learned they didn't have powdered goat milk I wandered around & thought it over & decided to take some of the fresh stuff home, just to see if it would agree with Lil J.  While I was thinking it over it occurred to me that Lil J LOOOOVED yogurt, I had given it to him many times, but he always threw it up afterward.  I wondered to myself if that was maybe because it was COW yogurt. I wondered if I gave him GOAT yogurt if he wouldn't throw it up.

So I went back to the dairy case & grabbed a carton of goat milk & a container of goat yogurt.  When I got home I was looking at the yogurt & on the label was advertising for their goat kefir.  I think it was then that I googled kefir & learned a little more about it. 

Not only did Lil J do well with the transition to goat milk, he LOOOOOVED the goat milk.  And I have to say that he really didn't like the taste of the cow milk when I was trying to do that transition.  He also loved the goat yogurt & does not throw it up.  And, of course, he LOVES kefir.

Up until very recently I bought him the kefir from the store.  There is only one maker of goat yogurt & kefir to my knowledge.  I really love the company, they have such great products  & great ingredients.  They do not add sugar, only sweetening with fruit & honey & maple syrup.  In the beginning I would vary the kefir.  They had 2 flavors & a plain one.  Later on it occurred to me that I could give Lil J even more variety by buying the plain one & flavoring it myself.  Even better I thought, because they flavored their's with juice & I could do it with whole fruits & veggies in the blender rather than just juice.  And so that's what I did for a long time.

Now goat milk is already close to double the price of cow milk (organic cow milk, that is).  Depending on where you shop it might even be more than double the price of cow milk.  And when I first started buying the kefir it was the same price as the goat milk.  So I would give him milk with breakfast & kefir with lunch & dinner.  A few months later the price of the kefir went up, so I started only serving kefir with lunch to cut back on costs.  And then just a couple of months ago the price of the kefir went up again, quite a bit.  I did ask the company who makes it & they said that their costs had not increased at all, but that they could not control the price that stores sell it for.

I mentioned it to hubby, saying I was sad because I liked giving it to Lil J, it's so healthy for him, plus he's getting his fruits & veggies in it too.  I told hubby my only thought was to cut it back to every other day with lunch.  Hubby suggested I look into what it takes to make my own.  And so I did (I already had an idea, I knew it involved grains) & I ordered myself kefir grains, plastic strainers, & mason jars.  And off I went on my kefir journey.

In the beginning I was making both cow & goat kefir.  Cow for me & goat for Lil J.  I do like the taste of kefir & I do like the health benefits.  But I gave up making the cow kefir, at least for now, it's just not something I can drink everyday.  I'm the same way with yogurt.  I get tired of it FAST. 

It took me a couple of weeks to really narrow it down to clockwork, but I am there now.  It's really quite easy.  Most of it is just based on your personal taste preferences & you tweak it accordingly.  I've got it down to knowing how much milk to how much grains I need to brew for 24 hours (you can vary the time of brew, but 24 hours is easiest for me to keep track & remember when it's due).  And then I learned it tastes even better if you let it sit in the fridge for 24 hours before you drink it, at least by my taste buds, that is.

So every morning I strain out the one that's on the counter brewing & put it in the fridge to sit for 24 hours.  I then put the grains I strained out with new milk & set that out to brew until the following morning.  And then I pull out yesterday's from the fridge & put it in the blender with fruits & veggies for today for Lil J.  I seem to have a good idea of how much I need for each batch, but if I get ahead of myself all I have to do is stick it in the fridge (grains & all) & it slows down the brewing.

The grains grow & reproduce as well--they are living organisms, you have to take care of them & feed them, it's a little like having a pet to care for.  So as the grains grow I remove the excess (or else the kefir comes out too strong for my taste) & store those in milk in the fridge.  I give them new milk once a week to keep them alive.  I'm still learning about uses for them & eventually will offer some to give away if anyone is interested.  And I want to make a back-up in the freezer just in case something ever happens to the grains I'm using on a daily basis.

For some reason, when I was first making the kefir & was making both cow & goat, I noticed that the cow kefir was much thicker than the goat kefir.  I emailed & asked the woman I bought the grains from.  She said that goat kefir will ALWAYS be thinner than cow.  I still wonder WHY, she didn't specify.  I know that the fat cells are very different between cow & goat milk & it's because of this that makes the goat milk more easily digested.  I suppose it has something to do with that.  And the only store-bought kefir I have bought is goat & while the consistency of it did vary from bottle to bottle somewhat, it was thicker than what I am producing.  I can only assume that they added more cream to it.  I have no source for goat cream, so that's not an option for me.

And so I am now a kefir maker & am very happy about it.  I am hopeful that Lil J will continue to love kefir throughout his whole life.  And I am hopeful that he will have a very strong & healthy digestive system (which is the first step to a strong & healthy immune system as well) due to consuming all this kefir & yogurt so early on in life.  

Halloween

Here's a link to a blog that I felt was excellent & wanted to share.

The 5 Scariest Things You Can Do This Halloween

And here's a good video I saw from YouTube

Should Christians Celebrate Halloween?

I know Halloween is a touchy subject for many Christians.  I am not judging anyone that feels it's ok to partake in or to partake partially in in some way.  I personally feel that we should have NO part in it whatsoever.  It is pure evil in my opinion.

I was discussing it with hubby recently & he agrees with my viewpoint, but he also says it's REALLY hard to get a child to agree.  He says he tried that with his two kids (of course with the mother not agreeing with him, makes it even harder) & all they could see is that were being denied something really fun, they only saw that they were being punished because they were Christians.  I know that EVERYTHING is a million times harder in a divorce situation (& trust me, those who aren't living in the middle of it have no idea, cuz I knew it was hard as an outsider watching my hubby prior to us marrying, but I didn't FULLY realize just how tough it is until we were actually married & I was really living in the middle of it all), but I wasn't present in my stepkids early upbringing, so I have no idea how it was handled & of course, obviously, with a mother that's not a Christian I do think it's gonna be near impossible to handle because the mom is gonna insist that the kids have a right to go trick or treating. 

But I digress, as for me & Lil J, I honestly don't know.  I plan to teach him from an early age what Halloween is really all about & I will pray that he understands & that he doesn't want to partake because of that.  Hubby feels that that is too much to expect from a child.  Only time will tell.

The Simple Woman's Daybook


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FOR TODAY, Tuesday, October 12, 2010.
Outside my window… it’s high 70's to low 80's, very comfortable with a slight fall crispness in the air :)
I am thinking… about finances & living on a smaller income,  I wish I could see other people's budgets--not in a nosey way,  just to get ideas & see how other folks do it;  about how I wish I could be one of those people you hear about who donates away more money than they actually live on
I am thankful for… my son, my miracle child, he has changed my life in so many ways, but all for the better
From the learning rooms… still doing daily Bible study with Lil J from "Leading Little Ones to God", still reading daily out of Proverbs as well.  I started reading it out of Lil J's own Bible, rather than my own.  It is the same translation, but the study notes, etc are different, geared for little ones.  I am wondering how you handle it when he's older & asking questions?  What happens when I'm reading in Proverbs about the immoral woman & sex, etc & he asks about that stuff??
From the kitchen… I am so excited that my homemade kefir is going so well.  :D  I have learned how much kefir grains I like to get the taste I like.   I have learned that the kefir tastes so much better (to me anyways, a lot of it just depends on each person's own taste preference) if it sits in the fridge for 24 hours before using it.  So I brew it out on the counter for 24 hours, then strain out the grains & bottle it & sit it in the fridge for 24 hours, then I blend it with fruits & veggies & serve it to Lil J.  So each morning I strain out the one on the counter, set up a new one on the counter & blend yesterday's with the fruit & veggies.  It all takes less than 15 minutes & I love doing it & it's saving us $$   :D
I am wearing… a black tank top & denim shorts
I am creating… working on Lil J's baby book again, he's cutting his first eye tooth so I need to record that & update some other stuff.
I am going… to a concert this Saturday!!  Woo hoo!!!  So excited.  Third Day, Toby Mac, & Michael W. Smith will be performing.  This was hubby's anniversary gift to me.  My brother & sister in law are gonna babysit Lil J for the evening.
I am reading… still working on the Mission book
I am hoping… to get out of this financial slump we are in............
I am hearing… Lil J chatting with his toys, so cute
Around the house… need to get some house cleaning done this week, was too busy last week to do much
Some of my favorite things… driving around, looking at houses, just dreamin'.  Hubby likes  it too & we had fun this last weekend doing it for a little while, we were driving through all these mansions & found a couple of repos & so we got out & looked through the windows & in the back yards, etc.  We found one that was VERY odd, in the middle of mansions.  It was like a Mexican Hacienda, but it was trashed.  Looked like it had been nice at one time, but it wasn't HUGE at all like the other mansions.  And then people had added on to it in just about every direction & each addition had a totally different roof & look to it, very tacky.  But I will never forget the kitchen.  It was massive & this house sat up on top of the hills in Anaheim Hills & the view from this massive kitchen was to die for!!  I wish I had taken a photo.....but I know I will never forget it in my mind.
A few plans for the rest of the week: my laundry marathon is on for today, house cleaning tomorrow & the next day probably & off to the farmer's market on Friday probably
I am praying… for our finances, for hubby's possible hernia, for lots of friends & family

Thursday, October 7, 2010

The Simple Woman's Daybook


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FOR TODAY, Thursday, October 7, 2010.
Outside my window… It's sunny & beautiful & relatively cool, but will heating back up this weekend :(  I am sooo ready for fall.
I am thinking… about how busy I've been this week......every single day this week.......
I am thankful for… God providing & having food on the table & a roof over our heads
From the learning rooms… Still doing daily Bible studies each day with Lil J, have also added on reading a chapter of Proverbs each day & I read my own daily Bible reading out loud for his benefit as well.
From the kitchen… been making lots of muffins for hubby lately; last Friday I made enchiladas for dinner & they were a huge hit, planning to make them again tomorrow night.  And I am so excited at how well I'm doing making my own kefir for Lil J.  It's so easy & Lil J loves it & it's a big savings to us.  :)
I am wearing… jeans, a grey cami with a white blouse over it
I am creating… been working on Lil J's baby book a lot lately--his first haircut had to be recorded in there & I added some other things as well.
I am going… with hubby in the morning to his doctor appointment & then I'm planning to check out a farmer's market in the area & see if I like it or not.
I am reading… Revolution in world missions; my church gave out free copies of it & the author is our guest speaker this Sunday
I am hoping… to get completely caught up with various little things I need to get done (& keep putting off cuz I'm too busy) by the end of next week.
I am hearing… Lil J slamming his leg against his mattress as he tries to fall asleep for his nap & the sound of the dishwasher.
Around the house… My stepdaughter has announced that she will most likely be moving out in the early part of next year, we are sad to see her go, but at the same time I am excited for her
Some of my favorite things… good food & company, crisp fall air
A few plans for the rest of the week: going with hubby to his doc appointment in the morning & checking out a farmer's market & then house cleaning when I get back home.
I am praying… for my hubby, my son, my stepkids, our finances, & many friends & family

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

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FOR TODAY, Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Outside my window... 
It's been SUPER HOT since Friday, yesterday was the hottest day EVER in our area, at least since they started recording it back in 1877.

I am thinking... 
about what to make for dinner tonight..........fish for hubby, pasta for me probably

I am thankful for... 
all that the Lord does & provides for us

I am wearing... 
a heather grey tank top & denim shorts

In the learning room... 
same for Lil J--Spanish, Bible study, your baby can read; I picked up a free book at my church on Sunday about missions

I am remembering... 
how dreary & unpeaceful my life was before I met Jesus

I am going... 
grocery shopping tomorrow, just milk & chicken & some supplements

I am currently reading... 
I finished my Francine Rivers novels, only to find that they are partially a true story, based on Francine's own family history, knowing that just makes it all the more interesting, but it was a REALLY good read, really makes you examine yourself & how you view your mother & how you treat your child based on how you view your mother & your upbringing.  I am about to start a book on missions that they were giving away for free at church on Sunday & I am still reading Black Beauty outloud to Lil J.

I am hoping... 
we get to the top of this mountain soon, we've been climbing for over 2 years now.......

On my mind... 
why my stepdaughter gets so touchy & defensive every time the subject of current events &/or church comes up, I guess all I can do is pray for her

Noticing that... 
Lil J has fallen asleep in his jumperoo, that means no afternoon nap for him most likely, so I better enjoy my time NOW

Pondering these words... 
if He is not Lord of all then He is not Lord at all--from Greg Laurie

From the kitchen... 
I made snickerdoodles yesterday, so yummy, I want to make some more focaccia soon, but maybe not todday

Around the house... 
I need to do a lot of cleaning this week, took last week off due to my shoulder, it's still not completely better, but I can't have the house not clean either.

One of my favorite things 
reading, I can't get over how much I enjoy it & I hope to impart that love to my son

From my camera..
We took a trip on Saturday to visit my hubby's grandma.  We took a pic of this pic hanging on her wall.  My hubby is the youngest one, sitting on his mama's lap.  This is the youngest pic of my hubby I have ever seen.


Monday, September 20, 2010

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FOR TODAY, Monday, September 20, 2010

Outside my window... 
It's really been a beautiful day today, I would love to have a little more breeze blowing though.

I am thinking... 
about relationships & how complicated they can become & how we can take action & communicate & forgive & make actual choices to improve our relationships or we can sit back & be hard-hearted & stubborn & refuse to forgive or communicate--it's OUR choice

I am thankful for... 
my incredible & amazing husband--he never ceases to amaze

I am wearing... 
blue top with crocheted cutouts & a white cami underneath with denim shorts

In the learning room... 
nothing new here at all........

I am remembering... 
how little & helpless Lil J was 17 months ago

I am going... 
grocery shopping on Wednesday--would go tomorrow, but it's my laundry marathon, so most likely I will put it off 'til Wednesday

I am currently reading... 
Her Daughter's Dream by Francine Rivers (I finished Her Mother's Hope--this is the sequel, these books are soooooo good!) & am still reading Black Beauty out loud to lil J

I am hoping... 
we get better medical insurance soon

On my mind... 
wanting to be a good mother & raise my son in the way of the Lord

Noticing that... 
Lil J has a poopy diaper, I must pause now & go change him & then return to finish this.........

Pondering these words... 
to never let the sun go down on your anger--I'm still pondering this from last week,  as hubby & I committed to each last night to always follow this 

From the kitchen... 
nothing new yet this week.....need to finish off some leftovers & want to make some corn bread & focaccia & maybe bagels too.......

Around the house... 
got a lot of extra cleaning done last week, so should have an easier week this week :)

One of my favorite things 
spending time with my family--over the weekend my mom, bro, & sis in law came over & we celebrated my mom's 70th bday.  I had a wonderful time.

From my camera...
this is Lil J's new trampoline